You Thought He Was A Goner But Your Ex Came Back

He Just Couldn’t Stay Away Is there anyone who doesn’t relate to the dreaded (or perhaps not-so-dreaded) “return of the ex”? If you’ve dated, 99% sure you’ve experienced the ex who eventually comes sniffing back for more in some capacity. Or maybe you’re the ex who just can’t stay away. At any rate, it’s an interesting phenomenon. Or is it. Isn’t it simply human nature to be … Continue reading You Thought He Was A Goner But Your Ex Came Back

What Engery Can Teach You About Dating

Have you ever wondered if the person you are dating is really worth your time and effort? If so, you are not alone. It just isn’t the “time” issue people stress about either (“I’ve been with him for x-number of years. That’s gotta count for something!”), many also fear investing too much of themselves in a relationship only to have it fall apart—and by extension their hearts. But, I’m going … Continue reading What Engery Can Teach You About Dating

The Commitment Trap

I once proposed an intriguing offer to a guy I was dating exclusively for several years. He was also, at the time, my first long-term relationship: “What would you say if I suggested one or two times a year we go out separately for a weekend and ‘cheat without cheating?’ We could do whatever we wanted with other people, and there would be only one rule: if we had sex, we … Continue reading The Commitment Trap

He’s Not My Boyfriend

The guy I’m having sex with isn’t my boyfriend. He’s not my husband either. Nor is he a friend with benefits. So what is he? I’ll get to that, but I repeat, he’s not my boyfriend. It’s not that I have a problem with boyfriends (or girlfriends). It’s just that I have a problem with the words that are thrown around and recycled. More specifically, … Continue reading He’s Not My Boyfriend